It is vital for all of us to take the time to take care of ourselves. Time for ourselves is not selfish. Being patient with ourselves is not selfish. With practice, this can lead to compassion for ourselves and others. Compassion for another Soul's journey can lead to forgiveness...of that person and ourselves. This does NOT mean we must condone another person's negative behavior. Quite the contrary. Especially if that person is an energy vampire. If that be the case, it may be in the highest and best of everyone involved to break that connection, to cut the energetic cord that binds. Compassion and forgiveness helps to do this with a higher vibration rather than being sucked down to the lower energetic vibrations of anger, fear and bitterness. These lower energies do not serve anyone.
The person you break from may be left feeling angry, betrayed, and bitter. This is very hard to think that one may cause this for another and guilt over this often keeps us in negative relationships. Each and every one of us has a Soul mission, a contract to learn specific lessons for Soul growth. We are not responsible for another's Soul growth. Making the break can lead to growth for all involved. We all have free will and can choose to evolve with love, compassion and forgiveness for each Soul involved. Self-care can include ending a negative relationship.
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